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Why I Now Complain Less.

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I have always believed, and I still believe, that whatever good or bad fortune may come our way we can always give it meaning and transform it into something of value.” - Hermann Hesse I used to be a complainer, a fault-finder. I have some fond and not so fond memories of my childhood.  When I was a kid, my parents force-fed me green vegetables and limited my television and playtime. They wanted me to study and do my homework, and made me go to sleep every night at 9:30 PM. But all I wanted was freedom, freedom from homework and freedom to do whatever I wanted. With all this, life never stops and my freedom was still locked inside me. Since childhood i always wanted a person who can understand me. So i fell in love but unfortunately it was one sided, But now at 22 year i have question why we need someone to understands us. We are not here to prove ourself but to live fully with all joys, as i said it was one sided i was upset and complaining to god.       Zindagi
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The Sound of Silence

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“Silence is not the absence of something but the presence of everything.”  ~Gordon Hempton Years ago, when I first started my emotional healing journey, I was longing to reconnect with who I truly was and free my mind of all the paralyzing thoughts and feelings that were wrecking my well-being and happiness. I finally felt happy, After months of finding new ways to improve my life. I was healthy and fulfilled and knew exactly what I wanted out of life. The pressure of constant automatic speaking, my voice echoing in my head rethinking what I said and dwelling on what didn’t sound the way I wanted it to, kept me restless and agitated. I was making myself more and more sad by just talking nonsense with nonsense. Silence helped me in reducing the bullshit talks. Silence made be feel little better and i started enjoying my life perfectly. But when I thought that I had finally started living the way I wanted, I still felt anxious and easily irritated by my daily life. I
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How Expectations Can Lead To Sadness

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“Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed.” ~Alexander Pope I was sitting on the ground, near river.  While I was staring the sky all my expectations came flashing to my mind. “No, this is not what my life was supposed to be. I was supposed to be successful. I was supposed to have a car. I was supposed to be happy. What happened?” Well, My entire life I expected to be the exception. I assumed that if I worked hard enough, I would succeed; if I did well in university, I would succeed; if I poured my heart and soul into something, I would succeed; my dreams could come true. I had become a slave to my expectations, and they were ruining my life. My own expectations were robbing my happiness. The truth of the matter is that there are few people out there who are lucky enough to be living their dreams. May be many of you are feeling same, but honestly don't expect anything from life. Be happy without expecting from anyone. Expectation
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Why life is unhappy

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Life and People Life mays seems like 4 letters, made one word. When you will look deep you will find, its a most complicated and most lovely thing. Stop. Relax. And ask yourself are you happy with your life. If not, why? Well, some answers will be, yes i'm happy and some are like, no i'm not happy at all. Lets talk about problems, the reason behind unhappy life. • Relationship • Money • Negativity  Life can be sum up in these three words. Recently Harvard University proved that relationships are the major cause of unhappy life. Believe it or not but the answer is relationship which sucks more than anything. Well in simple words relationship are the cause of happiness and cause of sadness too. If the love between two person is strongest than sadness is going to win the race in hurting. So try to focus more on self love. It will never hurt. Feel good by reading quotes. “You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe,
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Proving Your Love Hurts

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Proving Your Love Hurts Guys sorry for this late post. I was busy in some stuff, hope you understand. Lets start today's topic.  Love Love is some kind of energy which can only be felt. But Everywhere we go, we’re bombarded with tips and tricks about relationships. The most popular relationship advice of our time pushes this idea that it is important to prove our love, to show it again and again, in order to keep a relationship healthy. Why do we need tips to save our relationships. Aren't we good enough or just want to prove more. Yes, showing love is important, but it’s not all there is. If all you do is prove your love, you will always be stuck on the surface, never knowing how to get deep beneath. And when we don’t get deep with each other, we suffer all the shades of love deprivation, including loneliness, anxiety, and depression. Now just imagine, If I do not tell you, each day, each moment, that I still love you, you lose faith in me. This makes
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Why India is still a Developing Nation

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Why India is still a Developing Nation  This resource will provide necessary information on why India is still a developing nation and not a developed nation. Whom are we waiting for? Lets start, 1. Population It is clearly shown India is in second position but it is not what we can proud of. If a country is highly populated it is sure that the development of the country will also be very slow. The major fact is that there should be resources available for the same to be distributed among the people. (Ye to whi baat ho gyi bakra katega sabme batega) There is a quote said by Jawaharlal Nehru "India is rich but Indians are Poor". 2. Politics in India Politics is a great issue in any country. Political leaders focus mainly on earning lots of money when they are in the political fields. If the India has to be made a developed nation then it is very much necessary that the political field should undergo a severe change. The political leaders
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7 interesting facts about Dehradun

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1. Dehradun was founded in the 18th century by a Sikh Guru called Guru Ram Rai The Sikh devotees came to Doon back in 1675 and ruled here for almost 24 years. Today’s lively Doon was a remote place during the 18th century. It was when the elder son of the seventh Sikh Guru, Guru Har Rai came here that Doon came into existence. To honour Guru Ram Rai, the Dhamawala village hosts a pompous fair each year. 2. What does the word ‘Dehradun’ means? Dehradun has been derived from the two words ‘Dehra’ meaning dera, griha or home and ‘Doon’ stands for a valley that lies in the midst of the Himalayas and the ‘Shivaliks’.         3. Nehru were in dehradun jail Pandit Jawaharlal Nehru wrote an interesting letter to his daughter Indira in the first half of 1941 when he was lodged in Dehradun Jail. “All we can do is to face our job and do it as well as we can and to remain tranquil in spite of shock and disaster.” 4. Clock tower is also known as Balbir tower. The
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